I (Breester2123) joined LDSMingle on a friend’s recommendation after going through a rough breakup. She told me that she had met her husband on this site and strongly recommended it for me. "Internet dating? I don't think so. . ." I said. But she responded by asking me "what did I have to lose?" I told her "fifteen dollars". So she ended up paying for me. :D Along with the fifteen dollars she made me promise to give it a try. So I did.
After a week of sparks and smiling I started dating a few guys from the website. All of the dates were fun and great, but there was one in particular that stood out above all the rest.
I sent Andrew (ajay) a smile a few days before our first date. We talked for the first time on IM Thursday, talked on the phone Friday, he called me Monday to ask me out and we had our first date Tuesday November, 17 2009. We were only a few miles from each other so it turned out to be very convenient.
Andrew had been a member of the site for nine years. He joined when they still had the “Lifetime” membership option, it was just slightly more expensive then the yearly membership. His sister met her husband on the site and recommended it to him. He became a member when he was 21 fresh off of his mission. Even though he dated some girls from the site, nothing serious ever came from it. Nothing serious had come his way at all. So when our date came around he wasn’t expecting anything special, just another date. However, it didn’t turn out that way.
The only way that we can explain our first date is. . . magical. It was the best date that we’ve ever been on. We both felt connected to each other in a way that we’ve never felt before. We don’t want to say it was love at first sight, but there it is. We had our second date on the 19th and then I left for a visit to my home, Texas, for three weeks. I was disappointed at the leave thinking that he would forget about me. But, we talked practically every night and really got to know each other. When I got back we started dating again immediately and on our fifth date he asked “is it too early to call you my girlfriend?” I was ecstatic. Of course I wanted nothing more!
After dating and watching our relationship grow, Andrew and I confessed our love for each other and on February 4, 2010 he proposed marriage! Of course I said yes! I never knew that I could love someone so deeply as I love him. We are planning to be married in the temple May 29, 2010 and with only 3 months left to plan, are wasting no time. We’re so happy that we found each other and can’t wait for the happily ever after that we’ve waited so long for to come true. It was just the right time for both of us to get married and we’re wasting no time to be with each other for time and all eternity.
Thanks for bring us together LDSMingle. We don’t know how we could possibly live without each other. :D
Breester2123 & ajay
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