Online or off, dating can be intimidating. Almost everyone has at one point in their dating lives wished to have some sort of supernatural advantage in making relationships work. No, really! We watch movies like "Hitch" or "What Women Want", and think to ourselves, "I wish I could be like that. That would be awesome!" We all want some sort of insider's advantage to knowing what somebody's "hot buttons" are, what to say, what to do, how to make all the right moves, etc.
That said, I have some good news and some bad news for you. The bad news is that there is no crystal ball or magic potion that will solve all of our problems. The good news is that there is a tool available that will definitely give you a MAJOR dating advantage, and it's readily available to you now.
I'm referring to The Color Code personality profile that you've seen provided by LDS Mingle. The Color Code can tell you more about a person at a glance than you would be able to learn through weeks of dating. When you take advantage of this knowledge, knowing what you could expect from a relationship with them, how to approach them, how to make all the right moves, can become second-nature.
Knowing the "Code" will speed up your learning curve by leaps and bounds when it comes to forming personal relationships. Here's what you need to do to gain this "secret" advantage…
First of all, you've probably already taken your Color Code Personality Profile on LDS Mingle. If you haven't - what are you waiting for?! The first step in creating successful relationships is to figure out what makes YOU tick. Plus, you'll get a lot of free information on how to use The Color Code on the site. A link to go take the free Color Code profile can be found at the bottom of this article.
Once you've read about yourself and what drives your personality, be sure to check out all of the information that you can use to create relationships with others. You can use that information in many different ways. For example, if you see someone who interests you who is a YELLOW, go back and read up on the "Do's and Don'ts" for interacting with YELLOWS. Check out the information on what you can reasonably expect from a relationship with a YELLOW (and decide if that's what you want for yourself).
You will learn, essentially, how to appeal to different people in ways that are likely to open up a window of opportunity for increased interaction with them. That's what the Color Code does for you. It gives you insight about yourself and it helps you know what others are looking for as well. This does not mean that you change who you are - it simply means that you have a better understanding of what drives you and what motivates the other person.
And for those of you who are really serious about taking this to the next level and gaining a true competitive advantage in the dating world, there is a Color Code report upgrade that builds you a customized analysis that's all about you and is full of tips on what you specifically need to do to date more effectively. You will learn how to interact with others more effectively and build the bridges with others that can last a lifetime. The upgrade comes highly recommended by those who are using it for successful dating. You can learn all about the Color Code upgrade here.
Above all, I wish you luck, my friend. May all of your dating games being exciting and fulfilling (and may you learn to play your cards right every time!).
Take the free Color Code Personality Test here